To be honest? I haven't noticed your behavior change at all. You are still repeating the things over and over again that you want fixed. The devs read the forums, they don't need to tell you that they agree, you should be able to feel confident knowing that they read it and if you are so sure that you made a good point(and you do make good points) that they will look into it and address it in some way when they find a way that they like that fits with current and future design.
You are still making demands. You are still acting like you are better than the developers at making their game. You feel you were only noticed because you got annoying, but the truth is likely you only got a REACTION because you were being annoying. Like stated before it is very likely the things you have stated were noticed and were being watched and were on the docket to be addressed. I work in a development environment. Telling people what to test is the best way to release a buggy product. Selectively highlighting changes and making people think about them is a great way to notice holes. Discussions about the in's and out's and theory of a item or change like you provided are fantastic. There is no need for the behavior you presented. You feel the developers ignored things for months and years. Based on communication I see no evidence of that. Do you know if they haven't been struggling to program some key background systems so that they could adjust stuff for the last few months? Do they HAVE to tell you that?
I think a lot of what you say IS spot on. I say this despite I loathe to stroke that ego of yours but I prefer to be honest. I also pretty much have no desire to read what you write anymore because of the attitude. Every time you SAY I should read it, I feel like reading it a little less. Every time you say you apologize and know you are being an ass, you follow it up with being an ass, so it doesn't really make me think you do. So really continue to post walls of text, your thoughts, your math you empirical evidence and your experiences. I am quite sure we all like to read them. But drop the attitude because I know that *I* am tired of it(realizing that I can only speak for me).